My fiancé& I have been together almost 2 years and we have an infant together.
Our first time meeting he had a bracelet on his arm I asked him who it was from and he said his mom. I had a feeling it wasn’t true and asked him several times over the course of the next year l but he promised it was from his mom and she could make me one, one day. Eventually the bracelet broke and fell off.
When I had asked about his exs or his most recent ex he kept everything very vague and said that he hasn’t been in love and that his family has never met one of his girlfriends.
During the beginning on my pregnancy I got a weird feeling and decided to look at old pictures of us. In these photos the bracelet was still in tact and said the name of a girl named as his ex. I decided to look further and found a photo of a girl with his mom on his phone I had seen this photo before and he said that the girl was his cousin. I confronted him about the bracelet and asked to see the girls Facebook. It was the girl he claimed to be his cousin with his mom ( remember he claimed his family doesn’t know her ) also he came clean that the bracelet was from her.
Fast forward our baby is here and he brought home a new lighter this lighter had a number on let’s say 23. I asked him whose number was 23 ( his ex is an athlete ) and he became nervous and said random atheletes whose numbers are not 23, I decided to look on her Facebook and her number is in fact 23. While I was looking I saw that his other family members are still commenting under her new posts. It seems they were much more serious then he let on and maybe even together when we met ( I met him a few months after he moved to a new country alone)
We are going to visit his home country in a couple of months and I don’t even feel excited anymore I have no doubt he will go to meet her behind my back. I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive but I feel terrible.